I just started reading Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood and this poem by Ann Kiemel Anderson is included in the foreword.
Timely, and more than a little hard to dwell on right now.
Jesus, if this is your will, then YES to being single. In my deepest heart I want to marry, to belong to a great man; to know that I am linked to his life… and he to mine… following Christ and our dreams together… but You know what I need. if I never marry, it is YES to you.