Sign the UN Petition for the Unborn Child

foot_coming_out_of_pregnant_belly.jpgWelcome to the UN Petition for the Unborn Child and the Family! With your help we are going to present one million names to the UN this December asking Member States to begin interpreting the Universal Declaration as protecting the unborn child from abortion.

As you know many UN agencies and many nations support the killing of the unborn child in the womb. Some even call such child killing a universal right.  In fact, the Universal Declaration of Human Rights calls for the right to life! This petition calls UN Member States to return to the proper understanding of the right to life. This petition asks nations and the UN itself to recognize that a proper reading of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights must begin by protecting all life, most especially the most defenseless, the unborn child!

In early December, only a few short months away, we will present these one million names to the UN. We will present them to the Secretary General, to select Ambassadors and to the UN press. We hope to have them formally presented to the UN General Assembly.

I urge you to sign this petition and then send a note to all of your family and friends urging them to sign it, too. You can sign the petition in any one of 15 languages above!

Please help and get all of your family and friends to help, too!

Sign it here.

I signed it. So did Dave. Here’s why.

“Pastoral Care is bigger than evangelism”

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The boys at The Pilgrims Podcast have rocked my world this afternoon.

Their latest episode is the beginning of a 4 or 5 week series on pastoral care. Their guests were Rev Allen Cook and Jan Corbett-Jones. Allen worked in parish ministry for many years, then as a Chaplain at Westmead Hospital and currently serves with the Anglican Retirement Villages.  Jan, a mother and grandmother, now works with Anglicare with pastoral care at the RPA.  Both Allen and Jan teach pastoral care as part of the Diploma course at Moore Theological College.

Seriously this has made me wish I had the chance to re-do about a billion conversations in my life – including some very recent ones.

Allen and Jan talk to Mark and Steve about the difference between Pastoral Care and counselling, why Pastoral Care is so important, what to say and not to say, and Jan tells us why Pastoral Care is bigger than evangelism.

Listen here.

My new love and sadness…

I’m preparing a sermon at the moment for chick’s chapel next week. It’s on 1 Corinthians 8 which at first I wasn’t that excited about. But after some hard work over the last few days I am loving it! Despite it’s seemingly strange subject (Now concerning food offered to idols. vs1) I believe it has a lot of meaning for us and more implications than appear at first glance. Once I have preached it I’ll most likely post it on here.

As well as my new found love of 1 Corinthians 8 I have also reaslised how sad it is for me that I don’t get to preach regularly. I’m really enjoying the preparation phase and I always enjoy a chance to speak to a captive audience, so I’m looking forward to chapel. I’m hoping to get some useful feedback so I can keep improving this skill – it’s just a shame it will probably be a year until I get another go.

But such is life!

Who is my teacher??

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A few weeks ago I was chatting to a friend about my almost 2 years experience as a student minister – both at my previous and current church. One of the things that I was thinking about was that I’m often not sure who is supposed to be teaching me. Not at all meaning who teaches me the Bible and godly living, but who teaches me to do ministry? How to respond to issue that come with people I minister to? Who teaches me to think about boundaries and support networks? What to expect? In other words – who prepares me for the rest of my life??

Something that would fall into these categories somewhere is the ability to know the difference between caring about someone and trying to take responsibility for another person’s actions. This is something that I struggle with. Often if someone I know and love makes a decision I perceive to be unwise my reaction is one of two (or possibly both) things.
1. I will immediate start to blame myself, wondering how I let them down and what I could have done better/differently to change their decision
2. I see this as a personal rejection. Particularly if their decision is one that sees them turn from God, what I see is they have turned from me.
A result of this is that my world becomes about this thing, this decision. And it weights me down. I carry burdens that are not mine to carry. And eventually I crack!

So I have known for a little while that this is what I do but I have failed to really think it through clearly and learn how to react in a better and more godly way to things. But the last few weeks I have had a massive lesson in this, from an amazing teacher.

Two weeks ago at church our sermon was on Galatians 6:1 -10. It was a timely lesson in sharing burdens and carrying our own load. And even more importantly, not growing weary in doing good.

Tonight I read an article on the Resurgence blog. Here are some exerts  –

One of the most important skills every Christian, especially a ministry leader, must learn is the distinction between a concern and a responsibility. The younger the Christian or ministry leader, the more likely they are to lack the skill of discerning concerns and responsibilities. In my own pastoral ministry, failures in this area have contributed to extreme overwork and exhaustion.

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Scripture, of course, says it perfectly. Galatians 6:2–5 admonishes us, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. . . . For each will have to bear his own load.”

At first glance, this Scripture passage seems contradictory but it is not. It says that everyone, by himself or herself alone, should carry whatever load God has placed in his or her backpack. It also says that Christians should take some burdens out of the backpacks of some people and put them in their own packs and carry them out of love. In the Greek, the difference is between the words “load” and “burden.”

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Are you a Christian leader who is weighed down by all the loads you are carrying for others who need to carry their own load? How have you sinned by allowing concerns to become responsibilities and others’ loads to collectively become your burden?

(Read the whole thing here)

These have been timely lessons for me.

But I have also received an answer to my question of who is my teacher. Neither my minister nor Mark Driscoll prepared these lessons especially for me. But God did. He is my teacher and he will prepare me for the rest of life – and I’m so thankful!

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Joy, Faith & Salvation

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Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth in to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade – kept in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you greatly rejoice, though for now you may have to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith – of greater worth that gold, which perishes even though refined by fire – may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honour when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.

These verse in 1 Peter 1 are among some of the most precious for me and I think they teach us a great deal about joy.

First – We find joy in things to come. It’s the eternal perspective again. The opening verses talk of a living hope, an inheritance kept in heaven for you and salvation to be revealed in the last days. It is in these things that we greatly rejoice! Even while we suffer now.

Second – Again… our sufferings are not worthless or pointless. It is by trials that our faith is not only refined but proven to be true. This is why we rejoice even in the midst of these trials.

Thirdly – The extent of the joy we have because of Jesus is endless. Inexpressible and Glorious! We are filled with this joy NOW, because we are receiving the salvation prophets spoke of (vs 10) and that angels long to look into to (vs 12).

Continue to do good…

I happened to be flicking through 1 Peter tonight and was struck by this amazing verse –

So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

In my experience committing myself to my faithful creator becomes harder and harder as life becomes harder and harder, and I want more and more control. Until I realise I can’t control anything and have no option but to commit myself to God.

Until them continuing to do good is impossible.

John Wyatt on Bioethics and Redemption

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Lecture number 2 was just as helpful as number 1. Again I apologise for any randomness in the flow of my notes.

Christian thinking about the human embryo

We cannot think of the human embryo as either a baby that isn’t yet born, or as a collection of matter that has the potential to be a baby. We need to create a new category of thinking which holds together the physical and the immaterial. Human beings are at the same time fully physical (the body) and fully immaterial (the spirit/soul). The existence of a physical body is a sign than an immaterial person is present.

Materialist would argue that humans are merely physical. Platonists would argue that humans are fully spiritual and just happen to be associated with a particular body. But biblical anthropology denies both of these and hold the physical and the immaterial together.

The human embryo is ‘just’ a bundle of cellular material, but  at the same time God is calling a life into existence.

We must hold together the already and the not-yet. The embryo is in the process of becoming what it already is – as are we in Christ. We are all in the process of becoming – ‘we are locked into a narrative that we did not create’.

‘It is God’s grace which confers on the unborn child, from the moment of its conception, both the unique status which it already enjoys and the unique destiny to which it will later inherit. It is grace which holds together the duality of the actual and the potential, the already and the not-yet.’ John Stott

There are some problems with some of the language used in these discussions. The term ‘human embryo’ makes ’embryo’ the noun and somewhat removes the adjective ‘human’. There are many kinds of embryos, and this phrase just adds the human embryo to a long list. A better phrase is ’embryonic human’, which focuses back on the fact that we are not dealing with an embryo, but a person.

The language of ‘potential’ – e.g. the embryo is a potential life – is also unhelpful. This implies that it is not yet a life and cuts through the unity of the already and not-yet which we must firmly hold together.

Some people want to argue for a later moment as the standard of ‘start of life’ but our standard will never come from science.

‘We discern persons only by love, by discovering through interaction and commitment that this human being is irreplaceable… We must approach new human beings, including those whose humanity is ambiguous ad uncertain to us, with the expectancy and hope that we shall discern how God has called them out of nothing into personal being.’ Oliver O’Donavan

The implications of this is that we should not create embryonic humans, for the purpose of destroying them, even in the name of medial research.

But, as with abortion, it is not enough to oppose this. With must offer an alternative.

Currently an alternative to embryonic stem cell research already exists. There are currently over 2000 clinical trials and 70 different therapies being used which have come from Adult stem cell research. This is an alternative that doesn’t not include or necessitate the destruction of embryos.

Conflicting perspectives on evil, suffering and death

Charles Darwin said ‘ What a book a devil’s chaplain might write on the clumsy, wasteful, blundering, low and horridly cruel works of nature.’

As modern people we have lost the ability to believe that suffering has any good, because our purpose is maximum personal happiness. The thinking of most materialist has become that suffering is meaningless and therefore the supreme moral good in ethical thinking has become the minimisation of suffering.

Two examples of this are Christian Rossiter and Daniel James.

‘I’m Christian Rossiter and I’d like to die. I am a prisoner in my own body. I can’t move. I can’t even wipe the tears from my eyes.’

Mr Rossiter was a bush walker, rock climber and cyclist until he was hit by a car and left a quadriplegic. He is fed by a tube in his stomach. On Friday the 14th August the WA Supreme Court ruled that he has the right to refuse food from his care providers.

Mr James was a young rugby player who was left paralysed from the chest down after an accident during training. He tried to kill himself 3 times before traveling with parents to a Swiss Clinic where assisted suicide is legal.

“Over the last six months he constantly expressed his wish to die and was determined to achieve this in some way.”

The contemporary debate about euthanasia and suicide is driven by fear, fear of pain, fear of indignity and fear of independence. 10 years ago the arguments for euthanasia were all about pain, but since palliative care in the last decade has become so effective the argument has changed.

‘An individual’s way of death should fit with how that person has lived the rest of their life. Otherwise a bad death might mar the whole story of life, just like a bad ending can ruin a beautiful novel.’ Ronald Dworkin

The worst thing has become, not a life of pain, but one where autonomy is lost, and all that is left is the need to be dependent on others. This is not only related to physical injuries but also that of the mind, for example Alzheimer’s with which 11% of Americans are afflicted.

‘If you’re demented, you’re wasting people’s lives – your family’s lives – and you’re wasting the resources of the National Health Service. I’m absolutely, fully, in agreement with the argument that if pain is insufferable, then someone should be given help to die, but I feel there’s a wider argument that if somebody absolutely, desperately wants to die because they’re a burden to their family, or the state, then I think they too should be allowed to die.’ Mary Warnock

Sadly, Warnock’s opinion represents one that some of our population see as merciful.

Christian perspectives on death and suffering

In Genesis 1 & 2 Adam and Eve lived with access to the Tree of Life and with no limit on their time. Death was an outrage and an alien interruption in the nature of being.

C.S. Lewis once remarked how strange he found our constant surprise at time. How many times have you said things like ‘it that the time?’ or ‘has it been that long?’? We live in a constant state of time and yet it never stops surprising us. Perhaps our surprise at time reflects that we will one day be without time.

The limit on life is not just a curse, but can also be a severe mercy, a gateway to a new reality, and even a strange form of healing. ‘Christian professionals are called to struggle against death whilst seeking to recognise the point at which death becomes a severe mercy.’

Many people try to make ‘end of life’ decision based on quality of life. But who are we to judge someone else’s quality of life. A doctor is not able to make quality of life decisions, but they can make quality of treatment decisions. Do the benefits of a particular treatment outweigh the downsides?

Modern ways of thinking don’t recognise that suffering also comes from the hand of a good God.

Suffering is not a question that demands an answer, it’s not a problem that demands a solution, it’s a mystery which demands a presence.

Suicide is a pagan way to die. But many of God’s people have experienced suicidal thoughts. God gives us freedom but there are limits to that freedom.

‘Within the story of my life I have the relative freedom of a creature, but it is not simply my life to do with it as I please… Suicide expresses a desire to be free and not also finite – a desire to be more like the Creator than creature.’ Gilbert Meilaender

The Significance of the incarnation, death and resurrection of Christ

Why do we treat the human body with unique respect? Because it is the form in which God became flesh – and at that the form of a helpless baby!

‘Jesus has been with us in the darkness of the womb as he will be with us in the darkness of the tomb.’ Gilbert Meilaender

The state of dependence cannot be seen as a bad experience because it was good enough for Christ – he came and left that way. Because he was a baby all babies are special, because he was a dying person all dying people are special, because he was an embryo all embryos are special.

‘The process of dying need not be an entirely negative experience. Dying well can be an opportunity for personal growth, for reconciliation of painful and damaged relationships, for fulfilling dreams, for letting go.’

This was the idea behind palliative care, which was developed almost entirely by Christians. There pseudo-motto was ‘not only will we help you to die but we will help you to live before you do.’

Behind the blessings, richness and joy of the natural order of creation, in which our human bodies and lives are embedded, there lies an even greater and more wonderful story. It is the story of inexplicable and all-pervasive evil which is overcome and transmuted into blessing, but only through profound suffering, the self-sacrifice of the Lamb of God.

Redemption is what C.S. Lewis calls the ‘deeper magic from before the dawn of time’.

The stories we all have of those who die well are cameos, reflections of the big story. It is as though our own little story can become penetrated, interwoven and caught up into the big story. Our experience can reflect and become interwoven with the suffering and redeeming power of the Lamb of God.

This is our story. The uniquely Christian understanding of redemption.

Random notes from Q & A

  • The thinking that babies are special was introduced to the secular world by Christianity
  • The info on embryo use above will have implications for IVF, when it comes to ‘spare’ embryos. Sometimes to bare witness to God’s good creation means suffering exclusion from it
  • Ultimately we cannot use science to understand the merging of physical and immaterial (body & soul) – rather we discern by love. What we do know is that one upon a time I was that embryo, you were that embryo and, amazingly, Jesus was that embryo – so how do we say it is just a cluster of matter?
  • Christian perspective on technology should be that we use it to up hold the created order, not to go beyond it
  • Our primary duty of care – to anyone, babies and the dying alike – is hospitality… food, water, and TLC
  • There is a difference between allowing death and introducing it

Tonight’s lecture is Bioethics and Future Hope. Details here

John Wyatt on Bioethics and Creation

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Each year New College hosts a series of lectures which are open to the public and unashamedly present the Christian perspective on an issue that is relevant and important in our society today. This year the topic is bioethics and the speaker is leading international Bioethicist Professor John Wyatt.

The first of these lectures was tonight – the topic being Bioethics and Creation.  Here is my attempt at a summary of what he said, and to get in some of the gems that he said and I managed to write down. (Sorry if some of it is a bit random)

No-one comes to the consider the issue of bioethics with a neutral staring point. Everyone has their own presuppositions which will impact on their evaluation of the issues involved. As Christians our presuppositions come out of our faith. Something that is not to be forgotten is the great need for empathy in these discussions.

“Empathy is the way of the cross”

Some staggering stats that highlight the need for these discussions and the need for these discussion to be conducted with gentleness and grace

  • In the UK 90% of parents who are given a pre-birth diagnosis of down syndrome will choose to abort their child
  • 1 in 7 couples have fertility problems
  • 1 in 3 women will have an abortion at some time in their life

The dominant worldview amongst those who are the opinion formers of modern healthcare is Materialism. This view says that the cosmos consists of matter and energy and is limited to the physical, with no underlying purpose or meaning. ‘Human values, ethical commitments, and purposes are merely stories our brains have invented to give shape to our lives’. [from notes given out]. Materialism says ‘If you want facts you have to ask, if you want values you have to choose’.

The Enlightenment project seeks to be free from the limits of nature. It seeks to use scientific knowledge and technology to first enable us to understand ourselves (how the machine works) and secondly to improve on out humanity. It is the quest to understand and control ourselves through science.

Utilitarianism seeks personal autonomy as the ultimate good. The word autonomy literally means ‘I make my own laws’ (auto + nomoV). The ethical goal of this world view is the maximization of all personal choices, and medical science should be orientated towards this goal.

‘People have the moral right and the moral responsibility to confront the most fundamental questions about the meaning and value of their own lives for themselves… At the heart of liberty is the right to define one’s own concept of existence, of meaning, of the universe, and of the mystery of human life… Freedom is the cardinal, absolute requirement of self-respect: no-one treats his life as having any intrinsic objective imortance unless he insists on leading that life himself, not being ushered along it by others.’ Ronald Dworkin

‘The right of individuals to procreate must give place to a new paramount right: the right of every child to enter life with an adequate physical and mental endowment.’ Bentley Glass

It is the inner self that makes decisions about what happens to the external self. Of course the flip side to all of this is that the lack of the ability to have choice, liberty, control etc is ethical evil and to keep a child that would fit into that category is wrong.

If autonomy is the right goal, why can’t I chose the sex of my baby?? This technology is available.

In these times there are 4 things needed to make a baby –

  1. Sperm donor (genetic father)
  2. Egg donor (genetic mother)
  3. Uterus (carrying mother)
  4. Care-giver (social mum)

These can potentially be 4 different people and don’t necessarily need to be associated to each other. Preimplantation Genetic Diagnosis (PGD) makes it possible to test for almost any genetic variable prior to the embryo being implanted into the carrying mother. Tests can even be carried out on the embryo to test for risk percentages for things like Alzheimer’s and Breast Cancer.

Christian faith realises that all creation is orientated towards the purpose and plan of God. He has created not only the physical ‘stuff’ but the hidden moral order.

‘Biblical ethics (the way we should behave) is derived from biblical anthropology (the way we are made).’

Genesis 1:26 tells us that we are uniquely God-like beings. We are not self-explanatory… our meaning is found outside ourselves, in the one in whose image we were made.

We will never understand what it means to be human by medical science without first realising that we are a reflection of God’s being. Secular views of autonomy are nothing more than fantasy and myth.

‘We are most ourselves not when we seek to direct and control our destiny, but when we recognise and admit that our life is grounded in and sustained by God.’ Gilbert Meilaender

As the Godhead exists in community, so to be human is to be in communion, in relation with other persons.

Our creation in God’s image is both a reflection of what we already are, in the stuff of our beings, and also a promise of what by God’s grace we are to become. [from notes]

While we are uniquely made in God’s image, we are also made out of the dust, out of the same stuff as everything else! As such we share the frailty and vunerablilty of the rest of the world. This means that dependence on others is not a degrading and terrible reality. Rather it is part of the plan. We are meant to be a burden to each other! This is part of being called into a family, to share the burdens of life which God has given us. (Gal 6:2)

The life of family, including the Christian church family, should be one of ‘mutal burdensomeness’. The human person is the place where freedom and utter dependence are united’.

One of the problems in considering bioethics is the word ‘reproduction’. This word has a factory sense to it and misses the point a little.

“We do not produce babies, we beget them.”

What we make is a product of will and control. What we beget is a gift from our being and is equal to us in dignity and status. Children are not created, they are to be accepted and respected as mysterious and wonderful and equal to us in human dignity.

In extraordinary, counter-cultural fashion, the biblical understanding puts sex and making babies as belonging together. Secular views today keep these very separate. In the UK the average age of first sexual experience is 16, and the average age of having a first baby is 27. It is this desire for years of sex which is not complicated by babies, that has lead to the elaborate contraception and abortion options.

Feticide (abortion) says that a vunerable, potentially injured baby is not one of us. But God has called this baby into existence and that very fact means that it is one of us. It is our family.

Every baby is a reflection of Jesus. Sometimes we see God more clearly in the broken, weak and malformed.

Some random notes from Q & A –

  • Adoption is a redemptive act & a sign of God’s grace
  • As Christians it is not good enough to oppose abortion – we must offer an alternative!
  • When considering the huge amount of info a newly pregnant couple can find out about their child with PGD we should note that with god-like knowledge comes god-like responsibility
  • There are 200,00 abortions per year in the UK
  • 99% will be for ‘social reasons’
  • 1% for medical reasons
  • Only a handful will be in order to save mum’s life

Tomorrow night’s lecture is Bioethics and Redemption. If you would like to come check out this page for info.