What causes depression??

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Just like when we are all feeling down, sometimes there is an obviously cause of depression – things like major disappointments, frustrations, changes or losing something or someone important to you.

But there are also a number of other things that can contribute to the onset of depression. Different people will experience different causes and sometimes it will be a combination of things. Here are a few of the things that can be factors in depression –

Major events in our life

We all experience distressing events in our lives and it is quite natural to feel depressed for a period of time afterwards. Things like death of someone close to us, divorce, losing a job etc. Often in these cases we will eventually come to terms with this event and start to feel better on our own but this may be after a few weeks or even months of feeling depressed.

Loneliness

This on its own can be a cause of depression, or can be a factor that contributes to the effect of other causes.

Physical Illness

Illness doesn’t need to serious to be a contributing factor in depression. Obviously serious illness like cancer or other life threatening illness can play a part, but so can less serious, but long and uncomfortable illnesses. Depression in young people is common after infections such as flu or glandular fever.

Chemical Imbalances

Clinical depression is when the brain is releasing too many or too little of our ‘feel good’ chemicals. When there are not enough of these chemicals being released a person will feel sad NO MATTER WHAT. Chemical imbalances are the major causes of depression.

There are many other things that can contribute to the onset of depression. More info can be found at the sites below.

Lifeline Australia (24 hr hotline – 13 11 14)

To Write Love on Her Arms

beyondblue

Black Dog Institute

More from me on depression here.

What I want to say to my single friends…

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Your singleness is not for your sake

Back here I talked about 1 Corinthians 7 and Paul’s description of singleness as a gift.

He talks further about this at the end of the chapter

I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs – how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world – how he can please his wife – and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married women is concerned about the affairs of this world – how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in the right way in undivided devotion to the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:32-35

Singleness is not a chance to make life all about us. God has given us singleness as a gift to serve him in ‘undivided devotion’. There’s nothing that will stop this from happening more than wallowing in self pity.

I understand that singleness is lonely – I get it. I also get that, while the truth is that singleness is a gift, it rarely feels like one. I pray and I hope that in those times of loneliness you would turn to God for satisfaction. I pray that God would bless you with wonderful and understanding friends.

BUT… I also pray that you don’t get so caught up in that loneliness that you forget the point of your singleness. It is not a gift for you. It’s a gift for the Lord and for the church. Like the spiritual gifts in 1 Corinthians 12, it is given ‘for the common good’. My experience has been that once you realise that being single is a gift, and (whether you feel it or not) start exploiting it as a gift and serving God with it, you will get joy from it.

So my advice is to use your gift as it was intended – undivided devotion to your Lord.

Don’t wallow. Get up and serve!

The upside of regret

I’m having a moment of regret.

Looking back on a moment in time of my ministry experience and wishing, not that I had done it better but that I had done it completely different. And if I’d known back then what I know now I probably would have.

While I feel distress about that moment, I also feel encouraged by the fact that I want a do-over. Because it means that in the last year I have learnt more about God, about myself and about the people I seek to minister to. And it’s amazing how knowledge changes you. I like it.

Who gets depression???

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The answer to this question is not long or complicated.

To Write Love on Her Arms says this

Depression does not discriminate across age, race, gender, or class.

In other words, everyone and anyone can get depression. Black Dog Institute has information on depression in children, teenagers, adults, over 65’s, medically ill and pregnancy & postnatal.  If you fit into one of those then there is a chance that you could get depression.

There are many things that can contribute to the development of depression (which I’ll look at in the next post) but something that people should be aware of is that depression is something that can run in families, so some people will have an increased genetic risk of getting it. However, this doesn’t mean that if a family member has it you will get it, it just means that you could have an increased chance of getting it.

So everyone has a chance of getting it. However women are twice as likely as men to get depression, possibly due the the various hormones changes that we will go through in our lives.

But men you are not out of the woods. Depression in men often manifests itself as anger or hostility and men are prone to covering their condition with alcohol or drug abuse.

Men, if you get depression you are four times as likely to commit suicide than women. This is probably due to the shame felt as a result of depression. This is why I think education is so important – no one should feel ashamed about this or about getting help.

Helpful links –

Lifeline Australia (24 hr hotline – 13 11 14)

To Write Love on Her Arms

beyondblue

Black Dog Institute

More from me on depression here.

Engage 09

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I’ve been hearing (reading) a buzz around the blogosphere re: Matt Chandler and his speaking events while he is in Australia, which makes me pretty excited about Engage so I though I would try and share my excitement with you!

If you want to check out the program for the weekend you can see it here – http://engage.kcc.org.au/#

These is the topics he is speaking on

  • Engage09 – Topic: Lead with humility. Friday, Aug. 28
  • Engage09 – Topic: Love with fidelity. Saturday, Aug. 29
  • Engage09 – Topic: Give with generosity. Sunday, Aug. 30

It’s going to be a great weekend. And the best news is it’s not too late to get your ticket!

Visit the Engage website to find out more. Hope to see you there!

What is depression???

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My knowledge about depression is minimal. But I recently heard some statistics that made me realise I need to change that.

1 in 5 people will suffer from depression at some point. 1 in 5. Unless you know less than 5 people you are going to have contact with someone (probably lots of people) with depression.

So I decided that I should find out more about it. As I did I came to realise exactly how many people I know who probably have or have had depression. Its a lot more than I expected.

I also have come to realise the harmful nature of the stigma that can be attached to this particular illness. Hopefully as people become more educated this will decrease. So to do my bit I am going to post a series of blogs looking at what depression is, why it happens, who gets it, what part does God play in this, and how we can be christian sufferers and carers. At the end of each post I will include links to some helpful sites where you can get more information and advice.

There is a lot to know/learn and I will probably only scratch the surface so please feel free to add to what I say. If you have experienced depression I would love to hear your story.

Firstly, what is depression?

All of us have felt ‘down’ or ‘low’ from time to time. This is not depression. Depression is a serious illness and the most common mental health condition. It can be debilitating to a persons ability to function from day to day, and can leave them unable to enjoy things that they normally would. What it is NOT is a sign of personal weakness, and it can’t be willed away or ‘snapped out’ of. Symptoms can include

  • Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood
  • Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
  • Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once enjoyed, including sex
  • Decreased energy, fatigue, being “slowed down”
  • Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
  • Insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
  • Appetite and/or weight loss or overeating and weight gain
  • Thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts
  • Restlessness, irritability
  • Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such as headaches, digestive disorders and chronic pain

If these symptoms continue for more than 2 weeks than your should seek treatment.

There are also different and more severe kinds of depression, such as Mania and Bipolar.

Helpful links –

To Write Love on Her Arms

beyondblue

Black Dog Institute

A good day

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Well I’ve had a short hiatus from blogging over the last few weeks.

I have been sick for a few weeks over the holidays which means that I have returned to college feeling like I didn’t get much of a break. So I’m still feeling very tired and not quite 100 percent but hopefully that will improve over the next few weeks.

Some exciting stuff has also been happening. Yesterday was a particularly good day.

It started off with an email with mid-year transcripts informing me I passed all my exams… woot!

After class yesterday I went with some good friends to an amazing Japanese Spa in the mountains. We spent 3 hours relaxing in the hot baths, steam room and tea room. One word. AMAZING!

And then my friend asked if I would be her bridesmaid! One word. EXCITEMENT!